Graduation is a monumental milestone. It’s a time of celebration, pride, and hopeful beginnings. Yet, beneath the caps and gowns, many young adults feel the weight of uncertainty about what lies ahead. This anxiety is normal but can be overwhelming. Whether they are finishing high school, earning a college degree, or transitioning into the workforce, these changes can bring challenges. 

When we think of love and relationships, we often focus on how we care for others. Yet, understanding how we attach to the people in our lives shines a light on the deeper, sometimes hidden, ways in which we connect—or struggle to connect. This is where the concept of attachment styles comes in.

I often get asked “what caused you to want to be a counselor?” or “why addictions?” Often in this field one has either “been through the ringer themselves” or has personally experienced seeing someone they love struggle.  This is my story:

The day I met Kyle (Dec 16,2007) forever changed my life. We met at a bar, shocker! His roommate was the first to approach me and his arrogance immediately turned me off. He must have noticed he was losing my attention because immediately he stated “did you meet my roommates?”. That was when I met Kyle.